Equipping young women professionals with young families to find fulfillment, contentment and joy as mothers and home makers without losing sight of who they are as women.

Volume 06, Issue 10: Self Education

Reading is a neglected practice yet one of life’s biggest opportunities. Reading opens windows of opportunities to things that were foreign to us. Unfortunately, after completing formal education, few of us want to read again.

Books are a store of wealth. At every graduation ceremony, the second President of Kenya, who was the Chancellor of all public Universities would charge the graduating class to read by stating, “I give ye power to read.” How many of us after graduating make a commitment to read? Sadly, a majority of graduates read only newspapers and magazines.

One of the contributing factors to this is that there’s no motivation to read. We have emphasized the importance of certificates so much that we do not value books. After all, when you read a book no one gives you a certificate for that.

The greatest university of all is the collection of books we have read. Reading makes up for what parents and schools do not teach us. We should form a habit of reading and encourage children to acquire the discipline of reading.

Formal education may get you a well-paying job. But it is self-education that gives you the skills to succeed in life, beyond just book balance. Self-education helps you acquire life skills and success principles that are not covered in a school curriculum.

What we become depends on what we read after all the professionals have finished with us – Thomas Carolyn

Develop a hunger for reading. I was impressed by The Apostle Paul’s hunger for reading evidenced by his writing to his protege Timothy asking for his parchments and books. Even at old age and in prison, Paul was anxious to grow. The Old Testament scribe, Ezra, also believed in the growth of the mind. He devoted himself to study the Law of God, to obey it and to instruct the people of Israel in it.

Some of us have zeal but no knowledge. We desire to be used of God to bring transformation in our societies but we are not equipped.  Read widely and extensively to position yourself for noble assignments. Because Ezra’s mind and spirit were full from his reading, God tapped him for the gigantic undertaking of leading a large task force of men across the wilderness to rebuild Jerusalem.

Read widely to know how to tackle issues in life. The society is changing; we are changing, and almost everything within, about and around us is changing. We are faced with diverse challenges, dilemmas and problems that we do not know how to solve. We face challenges on career choices, how to run a successful business, how to communicate effectively, marital problems, parenting issues, sickness, handling finances, being single, divorced or separated, handling success, etc. That is why we need to read widely to open a window of opportunity in these areas of life.

When we read books, they take us to places we have never been before. We meet great minds and experts whom we could have never met otherwise. Sometimes we hide behind prayer when what we need is knowledge. In certain issues, it is not only prayer that we need, but also the knowhow to handle challenging issues in life.

We must read and learn all the time. Knowledge helps us manage our lives. Married with two children, coupled with a demanding career, books have helped me a lot on how to balance my life, how to relate with my husband, how to raise my children, how to manage resources, how to grow in intimacy with God, and so on. There are many things around me competing for my attention, but I have committed to create time to read.

The best part is that we don’t have to go out of our way to create time to read if we are determined. You can read as you wait at the bank, clinic, restaurant, salon, and on a bus ride. There’s always time to read. Advanced technology has made it even easier as we can now read by listening to audio versions of books. We are living in a digital generation, most tablets and smartphones can convert text to speech. This way, you can read as you drive, as you cook, as you exercise, even as you wait on queue at the supermarket.

Reading is an investment, and not a time passing routine. Improve your capability to handle life in this day and age by grabbing your opportunities to read. Don’t be content with the knowledge you have, reach out for more and keep growing as a person, intellectually, and in all areas of interest to you.

Lillian Chebosi

Volume 06, Issue 09: Biggest Opportunities

We are always looking for opportunities to make life better. The best things in life are free, like watching the sunset, worshipping, exercising, laughter, etc. The doors of the best opportunities in life are wide open, and free for all to partake of.

1. A connection with God

People who know their God will do exploits. It is pursuing God and being connected with Him that’s the key to great success in life. God did not intend for us to be acquaintances with him. He is calling us to know him intimately. God cannot take us further than we want to go, He cannot take us deeper than we want to go. We are as close to God as we choose to be. An encounter with God is the best opportunity ever, and it’s in the offing for all.

2. Physical fitness

Exercise produces endorphins in the brain which make you feel good. Set a routine in your home that is hard to break. One of the most popular excuses we give is lack of time. One can always create time for exercise. God has given us long life but we are choosing a shorter life span by what we eat and lack of exercise. Some of us are tired, ill, and out of shape most of the time. When we say that we do not have time for physical fitness, what are our priorities? We need to pause and consider what we define as success. What really is success?

3. Laughter

Laughter strengthens the immune system, reduces stress, lowers blood pressure, eases pain, improves complexion and makes you feel good about yourself. Laugh alone, and find time to laugh with others. We are always caught up in busy schedules, worries and cares of life that make us forget to watch the sunset, the beauty and miracles around. Put laughter on your to do list and look for occasions in the day to laugh.

4. Personal Development

Have an appetite to grow intellectually and in the things of God; to grow in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man. Wisdom is knowledge applied to the situation at hand. Wisdom makes sense out of non-sense. Develop the opportunities you have been given. Develop yourself and allow yourself to be developed. Stir up the gifts that are within you. Don’t border on mediocrity. Become skilled in your work. Whatever you do, do it as though as soon as you finish, an angel is going to take it to heaven to present before God.

These are some of life’s biggest opportunities. Refuse to waste them.

Lillian Chebosi

Volume 06, Issue 08: A Rich and Powerful Life

One of my inspirational characters in the Bible is Lydia. She mastered the art of balancing success and prosperity in the secular marketplace with a profound devotion to maintain her spiritual beliefs and ethics.

Lydia was a wealthy woman in Greek society with access to all the trappings a woman could want. Yet she found all of them insufficient to fulfill her completely. Her life gives us some profound principles for living a rich and powerful life, a balanced life filled with riches and power on every level.

Though she had everything materially, Lydia still sought more. She sought God, knowing that what she truly craved could only be found in him.

From Lydia, we learn one of the quiet basics, prayer. Prayer and meditation is the prerequisite for victorious living. They are at the seat of power from which all sound decisions are made that fill one’s life with all the soul longs for.

Pursue a quiet life of prayer to nurture intimacy with God and build a deep and passionate relationship. Out of that relationship would come all the trimmings we could possibly desire because that’s what lovers do. They give gifts to the beloved.

In spite of Lydia’s financial stature, accomplishments, and standing in the community, she took the time to pray; consistently and regularly. It was her lifeblood. She made the time for it, had the place for it. And she did not swerve from this discipline, seeking the face of God and his daily refreshing that enabled her to complete her demanding tasks.

Make prayer a central object in your life. Begin every day spending time alone with God. Cultivate a life of prayer and consistent spiritual devotion.

We don’t pray to center ourselves, for there’s nothing at our center if God is not there. Prayer centers God in us. With him firmly in place as the axis at our core, things happen. Revelation happens that empower us to acquire the desires of our heart, from inner peace to external success.

Seek to know where your source of power and influence truly lies and plug into it. Make God your divine partner personally and professionally. May we strive to seek God early and to seek Him late, at all times seek Him. To become passionate and disciplined in our pursuit of Him and all that He has to offer.

The other quiet basic we glean from Lydia is having a hunger for the truth of God’s Word and the ability to live it out. Not just a craving, but an insatiable hunger. Lydia longed to know more about God. She wanted to know his ways and what he expected of her. God answered her by sending Paul and other disciples to teach her and her friends.

Cultivate a hunger and thirst for God’s Word and a desire to be instructed in His ways. Make time to meditate on God’s Word regularly despite the various things competing for your attention. God’s Word is key to our success and prosperity.

In spite of all her material possessions, Lydia’s spiritual life was her dearest asset and she nurtured it with passion.

Pursue a healthy spirit before a bulging bank account. Pursue peace above all the drama wheeling and dealing can bring. Seek spiritual understanding and the knowledge you need will come into clear focus. Lydia prioritized her life in a way that made her fruitful in all her endeavours. As we recalibrate our spirits and align our minds with God’s way of doing things, the power and success we seek will overwhelm us.

Though her needs were met with an abundance with more than enough left over to contribute to the needs of others, at the end of the day, Lydia’s ultimate fulfilment came from the things that were not tied to her career. The legacy she established came from her intimate relationship with God and the works she did beyond her business.

May God help us to keep Him first in the midst of all that we strive to do and achieve. May we be ever mindful of His voice and leading. And when the affairs of the world beckon too loudly, may He lead us back to the quiet place where we can hear His voice again.

Lillian Chebosi

Volume 06, Issue 07: Unstoppable Love

Still fresh from Valentine ’s Day last Sunday with towns painted red, the message was clear, the world is looking for love. It is the day when most of the world is hoping to receive expressions of love.

There’s one place where love has been richly offered but not everyone receives it. God has poured out his love, waiting for us to receive and experience it. Unlike the love of people, we don’t have to qualify for God’s love. His love is undeserved and unmerited.

God pursues us, with power and glory, unstoppable love that never ends. He is unrelenting with passion and mercy for us. When we discover this love, we feel good about ourselves and expect others to treat us with honour. When you are secure in your relationship with the Lord, you don’t second guess your worth. You walk with your head high, and in expectation of blessings.

Many of us know Jesus personally but not passionately. We don’t really know how much He loves us. May God empower us with inner strength and power to understand how wide, how long, how high, and how deep His love is. That we may really come to know, practically experience for ourselves the love of God which far surpasses mere knowledge.

One of the best things we can set out for this year is to have an encounter with the love of God. That God would give us a passion for his presence, to set our hearts on pursuing Him with all we are and all we have.

Don’t settle for knowing God loves you because the Bible tells you so. Press in to know this love for yourself. May our desire be to fall radically in love with Jesus, so in love in Him to not be able to go one moment in our day without Him, without His presence, without yielding our hearts to Him.

Falling in love with Jesus is the best thing we’ll ever do. Have a love affair with Jesus. Take time to love on the Lord and to experience his love. Spend time with him every other day. Enjoy your walk with the Lord. Be not ashamed of loving Jesus. Make His presence the primary pursuit of your life.

Lillian Chebosi

Volume 06, Issue 06: Meditate on Success

Out of a false sense of humility, we sometimes want to shy away from talking about success. Success is not only a good thing, but a God thing. Our maker designed us to thrive. So go for it, be motivated to want to be successful.

What is your success? What does success look like to you? The trouble for most people is that they don’t know exactly what success would look like for them as individuals, or more importantly, what it would feel like personally.

Success is very personal, and is often more than just one thing. One person’s success can be very different from another person’s. Record your success statements. Don’t rely on other people’s success, identify your own and delineate your path towards it.

Meditate on your success. There is a direct correlation between the quality of your thoughts and the quality of your life. What you think determines who you are, where you go, what you acquire, where you live, whom you love, where you work, what you accomplish, what you read, etc.

Your life is a reflection of your most dominant thoughts and meditations. Define your success, and then make it a practice to meditate on it and take the necessary actions. All that a man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is a direct result of his own thoughts – John Allen

As you meditate on your success, be precise and meticulous. It’s not enough to meditate on success generally. You are the architect and building contractor of your future. An architect not only thinks about the frame of the house and the rooms therein, but also the types of floors, the sizes of windows, the location of outlets, and so on. Think specific and detailed. Paint the picture of exactly how you want it to look like. Nothing is too insignificant.

We will never have more or go further or accomplish greater things than our thoughts will allow us. Create an opulent thinking environment in order to create an opulent life.

Lillian Chebosi